fuzzynavelnot21 wrote:ShayShay wrote:I've found the NFs (or at least myself, ENFP) have difficulty speaking sometimes. We have difficulty finding the right words we want to say. It's like we have this certain way that it has to be said in our head and we can't say it any other way, thus stumble over our words/thoughts or take pauses between sentences to gather our thoughts and the right way to say it. It's kindof hard to explain, but I've noticed it with myself and two other ENFPs I know, as well as an INFP friend of mine.
I actually have to say that I agree with that being an NF thing at times. I totally identify with the SPOKEN word, without preparation, being hard to always express myself the way I'd like. If I have a little more time, I am usually ok. Written is a different story...I usually feel able to get my point across.
I feel difficulty both ways, but written is SO much easier than spoken. Yes, yes. A ton easier.